Her Expectations and my self actualizations

      i love working with Domina because everything She expects of me benefits me. This is how She supports her pets. She expects us to be our best selves because She deserves the best version of us. When i am the best version of me i show up for Her. i meet Her expectations. i put work into myself and grow and thrive because this is what She expects of me. Domina ultimately deserves the best. Obviously when we are working hard to be our best selves, we are also thriving and growing too. 

    i work in healthcare and i am a nurse. i don’t need to elaborate on what my job entails but it is known to be very demanding, mentally and physically draining, and at times incredibly risky to safety and well being. However it has very rewarding moments too. It comes with a lot of well earned knowledge, a great developed sense of humour, and at the end of the day i know i am making a difference. i love my job. i love my patients. i love my knowledge.

    In nursing there is so much potential for growth and change. There are an abundance of paths my career can walk down. The education alone is never ending. There is always room for growth and experience. There is always room for expansion. That is why i love the career path i chose. 

    Domina and i have spent time discussing my long term goals. Domina cares about my achievements and the possibilities that are out there for me. She cultivates my success and aligns my rules, assignments, and daily tasks in ways that nurture my future. Domina encourages me to push myself and seek out more knowledge. Domina fosters my journey in directions that benefit my long term goals. 

    So what does this mean for me? Well i want to grow my knowledge and education as a nurse. i crave learning and growth. Domina has helped me with just that.

    If you’re here then you have some knowledge or interest in the kink and BDSM world. Maybe you heard about safe, sane, and consensual, and if you haven’t you probably need to go and figure out what that means. 

    Safety is paramount in kink and BDSM. Many forms of play are risky, dangerous, and require the upmost amount of safety and preparation involved. So how does this apply to my knowledge? 

    Do you want to learn about how to properly care for abrasions, bruising, and lacerations? How about learning how to treat a burn on your skin from an accident playing with fire(literally). Did you know that if you play with bondage that you have to be really mindful of your nervous system and what signs to watch out for to prevent permanent nerve damage? 

    You’re about to embark on a journey with me on kinky play and its safety and first aid aspects. we are going to discuss preparation and measures in place to prevent injury, how to treat injuries that arise naturally vs accidentally, and overall how to care for your physical well being so you can continue to play safely and still have!

    There is a lot of shame around seeking medical care when injured during play. There shouldn’t be but there is. i am here to bridge that gap for you. How can you care for yourself and when to seek out medical care outside of my expertise. What questions to ask and how to advocate for your safety. As a health care professional, we really are not lying when we say we have seen everything; and if you bring something we haven’t seen yet, you ultimately make our day because we get to treat something new. 

    Domina has helped me to navigate my learning about kink and combined it with growing my knowledge as a nurse. Welcome to O/our journey.